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writes: so its been about a year since my ex dumped me. never got closure from it. i love her so much but sometimes i really just dont understand her. when we broke up she never gave me a solid reason why she didnt want to be together. it took me a while to even believe we were not together. we have been together for 2 years up to that point and i was even concidering popping the question. then all of a sudden she changed.i dont know what to blame it on. sometimes i feel that her problem with depression made her feel distant at times which i could understand. both my brother and mom are depressed. but the last time we saw eachother was about 6 months ago and she seemed like she wanted to work things out but never ended up talking after that.not a day goes by where i dont think of her at least once. i really love her. but a couple of months ago i started going out with another girl. she is a very sweet person but i feel that i am missing something in the relationship. we get along great and have the same sense in humor but i have to admit, when i am not with her i think about my ex.so sunday my ex leaves me a voicemail out of the blue and wants to talk. i dont know what about but i can only think its because she misses me and maybe wants to get back together. she knows very well i cannot be friends with her. everytime i see or talk to her its overwelming. i really dont know what to do. if i talk to my ex and things end up developing into something, i dont know that i want to stop it. at the same time, i like the girl i am with now. she hasnt done anything wrong and she seems like she likes me. but like i said before, she isnt my ex. i just dont want to hurt her and i dont want to regret it either. what should i do?
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 NEVER go back with the ex. She is your ex for a reason. Cut all contact.
It is just wasted time.
You are a man. YOU must make up YOUR mind.
The choice is clear. Whether or not you date the second girl, or someone completely new...you never go back to an ex.
-FBK
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): dont be a tristy man stay with the women u r already with if it dose not work out leave a try to get back with ur ex but say come over so we can talk u can tell if she is interesed when shes smieing and talking back
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