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*afni
writes:i am 16,i really like a guy at school but i am not sure how to aprroach him,because i don't know if he likes me.i know i should talk to him but if he rejects me,the whole school will know about it!
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reader, dafni +, writes (7 October 2007):
dafni is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks a lot for your advice but i can't do anything now because yesterday i saw him with a girl and he kissed her...i feel so sad..i don't know what to do..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007): i know how you feel,but you just have to go for it really. Trust me, if you do and he doesn't like you, it won't be too bad! I've been through it before, and it isn't, really.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (6 October 2007):
 Instead of going up to him and asking him out, why don't you make a friend out of him, and maybe do some light flirting to subtly get it across that you like him. Try to catch his eye and hold eye contact with him for a while. Find excuses to gently touch him, maybe when passing, or taking something. Laugh at what he says even if you don't find it particulaly funny. By doing this you can get a pretty good idea if someone likes you back without asking them.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): (smile) "The whole school will know". Know what, hon? That you said, "Hi, how are you"? I don't think they would really have much to ridicule you about. If they do, you go to a very strange school, or a school with very strange people. Take the plunge! Say, "Hi, how are you?", or some equivalent phrase. What is the worst that can happen? He doesn't answer back? Then you can write the turkey off your list and forget about him. Or, he could say something like, "Oh, OK, I guess", which leaves open possibilities for further communication. Surely, a sharp gal like yourself could see the open possibilities (lol). Go for it, hon. How do you know he isn't waiting for somebody to ask how he is?
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