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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My best friend was looking for a penpal and she met a guy on the internet. They send each others messages, skyping... But couple of months later, she had her heart broken by this guy, she was very sad. I don't know all the details of what he did . All i remember i wanted to punch him in the face.She is 20 years and had never a boyfriend but she is a romantic. So i told her to erase him from her contact list, as she didn't keep in touch with him. However she didn't take him off. Then, he tried to talk to her, they had a "deep" conversation. So now, they getting along very well. The problem is, she is skyping him half naked, and she plans to go on his country and have sex with him. So here's my problem: i know it s wrong, he hurt her, he acted like a jek; secundo, it s a guy she met on internet, was he recording her video skype to sell to a porn studio or black mailed her later? tertio, it s too dangerous to go met a guy far away from her country just by herself. Then have her first time just because she desires have sex,that is completly stupid that is not of her nature. She loves romantic story. For me i picture this like an animal satisfying his sexual impulses...But she is enough old to make her choices. Maybe i m overprotective or paranoid to see bad thing everywhere... I have the feeling i should stop her to see that guy, but i m afraid to betray her. What should i do? Am I right to be opposed to this? What do you think? help me pleasesorry, if my english is bad,( i speak french)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your advises, i will talk to her. I hope she forgets her plan!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): I think you should tell her exactly what you just wrote here. And I dont think she should get out of the country for a guy! If anything he should go to her. Plus she is too young! It sounds very dangerous!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2012): I think that u should be worried. U are just looking out for your friend. Tell her the cons of meeting this guy. If she wants a relationship then she should wait for the right guy. If she just wants sex like a one night Stand then I'm sure she can meet up with just some John doe. Good job looking out for your friend!
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