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I have a boyfriend now, but I'm getting love thoughts about this friend who once asked me out.

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Question - (15 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, *MLBabyDoll writes:

I have this friend, he's 15 last year he asked me out...i had to say 'no' dad would flip out if he knew i had said 'yes'. Months later i met a guy, who is now my boyf. I have talked about my boyf since i joined DearCupid.....Now im getting love thoughts about my friend, maybe could it be because next month is the month my friend asked me out? Could some one help? I getting upset because i have a boyf and i know i shoulnt be getting these thoughts.

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A female reader, VMLBabyDoll United States +, writes (16 August 2008):

VMLBabyDoll is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I do love my current boyf, but he hasnt said 'i love you' to me for a week(i have said it to him but he never gets back 2 me) plus my friend still likes me(he has told me) and this friend also has a girlf....thing is my friend doesnt give ppl a 2nd chance nd i had mine, didnt take it soo.Anyway im trying really hard to get these thoughts out of my head but they wont go away. my other friend Sam feels like a theropist because im always running to him about these kinds of questions too. Do you think it would be best if i dont talk to this friend for a while? come on i dont want to go through this without help!

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (15 August 2008):

kenny agony auntIf you are getting love thoughts about someone else then maybe you should be with them instead of the person you are going out with. You are only young, at this age it is not unusual to change boyfriends regularly. If you really feel stongly about this other guy then i think you need to be open and honest with your current boyfriend and tell him the way it is, otherwise you ultimately risk leading him on. Of course this is just what i think, you must do what you feel is right.

All the best x

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