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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im straight and have a boyfriend but lately i have beeen thinking about being a lesbian i look at pictures of naked women and feel the need to masturbate. after i have masturbated i feel dirty but i still like boys :S im confused please helptara xo
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reader, Bella666 +, writes (30 May 2007):
 Hi, I wouldn't worry about this at all. This happens to most people especially at your age when your hormones are starting to take affect. You just don't hear of this much because it's not something that people like to speak openly about. You may be bi-curious, bi-sexual, a lesbian or just straight. Just because you have these sorts of feelings doesn't mean anything. Your human & your young, you should be happy that you have such an active & healthy sexual desire! The female body is very beautiful & even if you later on in life act on these feelings don't worry about it, it's all part of life & experimenting, after all how can anyone really know exactly what they want without trying out all the options lol?! Maybe as you grow older & understand more you will start to enjoy these feelings & be able to fantasise & act on them without feeling dirty or ashamed. It will never mean that you actually are bi-sexual or anything & so what if you do think that you may turn out that way, be proud! You've got nothing to worry about. Just enjoy yourself! xx
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reader, candy00s +, writes (28 May 2007):
 Its completely normal to be feeling and thinking like this, a lot of girls of a similar age do. It could be you are attracted to both girls and guys, i think it is your hormones kicking in. You have plenty of time to think about and work out your sexuality - try not to let it worry you.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (28 May 2007):
 I think this is normal: it's human nature to be turned on by sexual images, even if they are of something we do in our sex life. Don't be worried that you're a lesbian because you find this attractive, we all do!
Don't worry about it, just enjoy whatever makes you feel good at the time.
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (28 May 2007):
Dear Lesbian Tendancies.
Often on this rockyroad of human sexuality we do tend to take a wrong turn. And we blindly just follow the In Crowd,which has always been one of Heterosexuality. And just as there was no room in the Inn for baby Jesus, So there has never been any room in the hearts of most men for Homosexuality It is possible that in our desire to be normal, Straight, and a part of this In Crowd. We failed to really deal with our true sexual identity. Then one day we find that same gender, M/M, turns us on sexually, while the opposite gender, M/F, now turns us off. And with all of those religious and social, No-no"s, plus one's coming-out. There will always be a price they will have to pay. And being a Homosexual in most area's of the world will never be A-Okay.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (28 May 2007):
 It seems like your hormones are starting to kick in. You're at a normal age for curiousity. You may be bi-curious, bi, or just in hormonal overdrive...
DV1
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reader, glamgirl +, writes (28 May 2007):
 have you ever had feelings for a women, and wanted to be with them ? if so then you could be bisexual.
if not it might just turn you on because a naked women reminds you of sex.
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