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writes: hey guys, little war between my brain and my heart at the moment, so would appreciate outside opinions. I'm in a relationship right now and he's amazing to me. The thing is, I'm still in love with one of my best guy friends that I had a thing with 3-4 years ago. Despite me having other guys in the past, I always find myself still wanting him. We talk and flirt on rare occasions, and when we do I'm right back to square one and all my old feelings come back. He's the only one who actually gives me butterflies and find myself more happy and excited to talk to him than my boyfriend. Since the thing we had didnt work out between us, I'm not sure if I should stay with my boyfriend or try to start getting back involved with this guy. My boyfriend is amazing, but I feel like I'm settling or something when this guy I love is not mine. On the other hand, if nothing comes of me and him, I have wasted a potentially good relationship future with my current boyfriend. I hope this makes sense...!
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (5 January 2012):
 i understand exactly what ur going through. i am still in love with a person from my past, i even moved countries in order to be away from him...and no matter what i did or who i dated , im still in love.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 Makes total sense. Why did the fling not work out? Maybe if that didn't work then it wasn't meant to be? Can you imagine washing fling guy's undies and socks and living with him and his habits? Think about all these aspects and if you could do all these things then maybe fling guy is Mr. Right??
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