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writes:i have met a wonderful man that i love with all my heart i have 3 children from a previous relationship the problem is i always thought i would have more children one day as i am only 28 but my new man says he cant have children and i have now found myself longing for a baby my youngest is now 6 and i want another. i just dont know what to do Reply to this Question
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reader, Cateyes  +, writes (19 May 2007):
 I'm a bit confused...he can't have children or he doesn't want any children? I'm reading this 2 ways here from you and the main question at top, however, either way you have to make the choice which to you is more important AND will you be able to live the rest of your life with that choice you made. If it's because he doesn't want any children, please do not think months or a year down the road you will change his mind. You already know if he doesn't want any...and I know this hurts because you love him, but at least you know how he feels about it. If it's because he can't have children, then think of maybe adoption if he and you are willing to adopt. There are so many children wanting to be adopted. Again, I tried to answer both ways as I see it posted. I wish you luck and remember...you have to be able to live with your decision that you make AND be happy with it. Good Luck!!
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reader, penta +, writes (18 May 2007):
 You have to decide whether you want this man or another baby. Time to make the hard choice, bacause you can't have both. Wish I had better news for you.
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