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*assiegal9
writes: soo i'm 16 and i've never been kissed. i had this crush on this guy 4 two years. he was always really sweet but he would joke about my body or hair in a idk i guess a nice way. we never really talked outside of school but we would talk say hi to each other have a quick convo or hug but thats it. idk why i liked him maybe because he payed attention to me sometimes and was the guy that was always in my daycreams.The thing is that he's leaving to go 2 some other school and now i'm stuck going through 3 months of torture bcuz i miss him. i never told him i liked him bcuz i'm so shy and kinda awkward. i'm happy that he's leaving so now i can breathe and i wont have to think about him all the time at school but sad cuz i liked him so much and i miss him. i hate myself for not telling him but in a way happy cuz i dont wanna get rejected. My stupid heart thinks he was the "one" but he's not. i know i can find better i just wanna know how i can stop feeling so bad and to move on. i bet this sounds kinda pathetic but its like i'' never find anyone to love or kiss cuz i missed out on him(sorry this was kinda long)
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reader, cassiegal9 +, writes (22 July 2010):
cassiegal9 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanx for the reply i think i'll actually write the letter. i'm getting over him now and i'm starting to think about him less and less each day. so thanks!
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (17 July 2010):
You could try writing him a letter that you don't actually send. Just write down everything you feel and seal it in an envelope and tuck it away somewhere. I often use this technique to get stuff off my chest without any risk. It works pretty well for me.
Also if he was the one you would be together so "the one" is still coming :-)
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