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writes:I am in a relationship with a guy two years my junior. We have been friends for almost a year before we started dating. Whilst we were friends, I always wished we'd be in a relationship so it made my day when he finally agreed to it two months ago. At first, we were all over each other frequently, but now it's more him over me. He hugs and kisses me and expresses it far more than I do. We get on pretty well and there are still times when the 'old' loving feeling comes back to me which makes me all over him again. Why is this? Does it mean I am now less interested or an underlying factor? Also, he is religious thus there is no penetrative sex before marriage so he plays with my body instead. However, I don't often want it or when we try, I don't come every time. Is this normal? Should I be worried about disappointing him? Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, BethanyO'Shea  +, writes (22 June 2011):
i think your falling out of love or else bored maybe spend so time apart for a while if you miss him then you know you still love him
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (22 June 2011):
 There could be many factors to this - the fact that sometimes the 'idea' of a relationship is actually more exciting than the reality, you may not actually fancy him as much as you originally thought, or that at 2 months, the relationship has run its course and it is time to move on.It has only been 8 weeks and you are already talking about the 'old feeling'..... that isnt a good sign!What do you actually want out of this relationship? How would you like it progress and develop? Where do you see it going in the future?
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reader, N91 +, writes (22 June 2011):
 I'm gonna take a guess that you guys were very close friends and he always payed you a lot of attention? Compliments and the like?
Sounds to me like you've become a bit bored of all the affection now and wish he would become a bit more masculine and stop being so lovey dovey?
Just tell him he's coming on a little too strong, reassure that you still like him, just that it's a bit much with how often he's doing it...
Good luck
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