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writes:hi dear cupid... i have a few questions that i need help with, i got back from work yesterday and my partner of two years told me that she was not happy with me and wants to break up with me and said that i have two weeks to find somewhere to live, we have a lovely baby girl called molly and she is 13 weeks old, me and my partner have been through some rough times in our two year relationship but we have always pulled through, i really dont know what to do as i love my family and this is all i ever wanted a lovely partner and a lovely daughter, i have tryed to talk with my partner but she just keeps saying that she is not happy. i have to admit that sometime's i can be a pain but what fella isnt... my heart is in bits i dont have any family around me to help me decide what to do, how can i show my partner that i love her loads and that we can be a happy family under the same roof. im so confused and hurt by the prospect that im losing my family can any1 help of give some advice, thank you so much for reading this x Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 April 2010):
I agree with the post below. This could be (and sounds like) post natal depression. It will be very hard for you to talk to her about it, but you must try. Also, if you can talk to her family, it might be worth it. Start there and see if that gets you anywhere. Whatever happens, please remember your daughter will need you, so put effort in to her even of you do have to move out.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 April 2010):
 She could be suffering from depression or postpartum and baby blues.
Although many women get depressed right after childbirth, some women don't begin to feel depressed until several weeks or months later.
Depression that occurs within 6 months of childbirth may be postpartum depression.
You may have to take her to consult a doctor.
At this time , you should give her all your moral and emotional support and not fight with her or control her or criticize or complain about her or her handling of the baby and chores.Help her with the household chores and looking after the baby . She needs rest too.
She probably is not feeling your love or your emotional support and the she could be overwhelmed with all those chores and baby needs.
reference;-
http://familydoctor.org/online/famdocen/home/women/pregnancy/ppd/general/379.html
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