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I had a threesome with my roommate

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Question - (6 June 2021) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2021)
A female South Africa age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I am 25 years old this year. I had my first threesome last weekend with my female roommate (who is now ex roommate) with his male "friend". We fought not because of a threesome but because she took my keys without telling me and spent the whole day somewhere else with some guy whose also not her boyfriend because she has a main boyfriend. I got mad because I don't like someone spending the whole day with my valuable items (or something considered valuable to me) especially if they did not ask me or we never had an agreement of her taking the key. She said she took them by mistake but when I called her she kept on saying she will be back soon ended up spending the Whole night at some guy's place with my keys and the whole day the following day until 5pm in the afternoon that's when she came back with my keys. I was so angry to the point I shouted at her. I'm not the type to easily get angry but when I do get angry I lose it all. I felt my buttons were pressed and I was not sure if we could continue being roommates.

She ended up moving out the beginning of this month (June 2021). I thought I won't miss her but honestly I do. Not only do I miss her but I miss the Threesome too. I want to have more threesomes with her. I never dated or had any intimate relationship with a woman before and I never thought I will enjoy a woman but I enjoyed her. I want to tell someone this but I don't know who and where do I start or how can I get her back. I'm horny when I think about her and I'm not sure what is happening to me as this has never happened to me before. I have not got horny before thinking about another woman. Please Help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2021):

You had lesbian sex with her and liked and want it again.

It has to be her because you are too embarrassed to find another woman to go down on. You two are out on each other,so a second rodeo is much easier than going on a date with a women, seen in public. Going on a date with a guy, kissing in public is something that you're used to. With roommate you can cut to the chase and go down on her. BTW, I don't know how anyone who's tried won't like it.

My married girlfriend and I slept it off at my house. I didn't want to wake my husband, so went to bed together and ended up having sex. Next day sober "OMG what the f did we do"

Could never do it with the hottest girl in the word, but we did it 4 more times. Don't tell anyone.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2021):

Agree with FA. Your hormones are raging, causing you to lose your sense of good judgment. She is a bad apple. There are plenty of others you will have sexual chemistry with. Don't contact her again.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (9 June 2021):

Fatherly Advice agony auntIt is unusual for a post to go unanswered for 3 days. Perhaps your story is so unusual that no one can figure out where to start with advice.

In part you asked "how can I get her back"? I'm taking that as the main point of your post. I don't think pursuing a further relationship is a good idea. Your former roommate has shown a shocking disregard for you and you have learned to distrust her. She has shown that while she is willing to use you, she has no respect for you. You just can't build a long term relationship on that foundation.

My advice to you, is to take a few weeks to get over your feelings for the one encounter. Then with out longing for the impossible past, you can move forward looking for a partner that can offer you what you really want.

FA

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