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36-40,
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writes:Hi, I recently initiated meeting up with a guy I've known for a little while, he admitted that it was really out of the blue, but we still went out. We texted a little bit before the D-day, and I had a good time with him, but am unsure whether he did. He did kiss me on the cheek and hug me goodbye. The thing is, I am now unsure what the next step is!! I saw him the day after, but we didn't talk about it as we were with a load of mates. It's now the night after, I don't know if I should ask for a second date, and just go from there or what???Thanks for any advice!
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reader, missdimples3  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 I say wait till he asks you out again! give him some space act normal n he should come back around for sure and if he doesn't oh well his loss you probably deserve better. but if he does come back n ask you for another date then he wins YOU :) good luckx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): Try giving him some space now and see what he does.. or doesn't do. If you constantly text him now, or look too interested, you'll kill it. Let him think you don't really care if he contacts you, and he'll be more interested in trying than if he sees that you're quick to jump up and dial his number. If he contacts you and asks why you never called or tried to talk to him since, just tell him you were waiting for him to do the same. If he doesn't phone or try to talk to you in some form in the next week and a half or so, then try to contact him. Let him sweat it out and have the feeling that he might lose you if he doesn't reciprocate enough.
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