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writes:I lost a love again. i was dating this girl that i had dated 28 years ago. we meet back up and hit it off just great then all of a sudden she was gone again. the first time it was easy to let go, but this time i just cannot let go and don't know what to do. she will not talk to me or anything. so what am i suppose to do because i just cannot for get her and it is driving me crazy. Reply to this Question
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reader, turk182 +, writes (24 July 2010):
 hey, i'm going through a weird break up and its frustrating the hell out of me! a week ago @ 2:30am i make a suggestion about our sex life & she gets up & goes home! I havent been able to talk to her since either. we were getting married this year.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): maybe write a letter - telling her you need closure, that you had invested deep attachment this time around and just need a bit of help moving on thus would she talk to you about why she ended things. You are not going to argue or fight or try to win her back ... just need some things clarified so you can move on with your life.
If she chooses still not to talk to you then you have no choice but to let her go without explaination, if this really does drive you up the wall then try talking it out with a friend or counseller ... maybe they may be able to see the situation from a another prespective than you and may be able to see why she left.
Hope things go well - i say if she has walked then let her go, only hurting yourself be holding on to something that wants to be free.
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