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*ememberthismoment_
writes:Hello, I just wondered about something...Well I had a first love, we were together almost two years, he was abusive and nasty at times, but we had good times too.Well, he never ended it with me and he just got with someone else - it's been a year on valentines day that we stopped talking/seeing each other, because of his new girlfriend.My question is, I saw him today with his girlfriend - and I still feel bitter about them being together ect. Is that normal? :/ Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): Who knows what is normal in life, everyone is different. I will tell you this he will be just as abusive and nasty to her as he was to you, be grateful that you two are no longer together and let it go.
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reader, NorthByNorthwestt  +, writes (19 January 2011):
Completely. It's normal to still have feelings for someone long after you two aren't together. It's not a good feeling, but trust me, it'll go away. Sometimes you have to work towards it, and others it'll just be an untimed realization that you're so much better. Just hold on, and try to get yourself back into that game. The payoff will come soon enough(:
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