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writes:About a year ago I met this great guy..Andrew We spent some time together and we seemed to really like each other then he suddenly just stopped talking to me.. So I licked my wounds and moved on and didnt bother him anymore.. I got into a relationship about two months later and me and the guy(Jake) were together for about a month when Andrew all of a sudden messages me out of the blue.. I told him we could be friends and that I was happy.. I ended up going to his house one night and we ended up kissing..I felt really quilty, but i knew I still had feelings for him... He begged me for another chance told me I gave up on him the first time and that he wouldnt do it again that he really cared for me.. The day that I broke up with Jake I called him and he told me that he had put me back in the friend category.. He talked to me as a friend for about a week or two and then he just stopped.. I've messaged him to try to talk to him several times over the past few months and he hasnt responeded once.. and he wont even tell me why... Does anyone have a clue why he would just drop me like that after all the things he told me.. whats up with that?
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reader, AmyN +, writes (19 January 2011):
Could be a few things. He may not know what he wants, or he may not be ready for what he wants yet. He may also be involved with one or more other girls....... or guys .
He also may not be used to sharing that level of info with other people. To me it sounds like he has some things that he should figure out on his own before a serious relationship should be attempted. Try not to take it too hard though because for whatever reason he doesn't feel like he can be strong enough to tell you the reasons which leads me to believe that the problem lies with him, not you. I hope this helped at least a little 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): I think he probably does like you, but he doesn't know what he wants for himself. Maybe he's going through a lot of changes and stress and thinks that it's bad timing for a relationship.
It really hurts when people that you fall for just drop off the radar, unless he says that he would like to try one in the future(and you feel he's being totally honest), I would drop him. Maybe keep him as a friend, but it would be harder to get over.
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