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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Myself and my boyfriend have been going out for five months now but he never told me he loved me till the day i decided to text him by telling my friend to call him without him knowing we were friends,i had been with him day before the call and we even had sex.My friend called telling him she saw him the day i was with him and liked him and would like to see him and wanted to know if the girl he saw with him was his girlfriend coz she didnt want any Confrontations with her.To my surprise he denied being my boyfriend and that it was safe for her to come so i took the phone from her telling him i heard all he said and cut the phone.he called back asking for forgiveness and aslo said he was a guy and that what did i expect and no one was perfect so i should forgive him which i refused that day.He sms me later on telling be how he adores me and crazy about me and also promised never to hurt me again.he called me later on again so i forgave him and asked him if he loves me which he says yes and also told him how much i loved him.do u think i did the right thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): Sorry to say, but you are both young... You are one of the girls right now who is willing to have sex with him because a lot of girls your age are still saving their virginity... SO he just doesn't want to loose you as a sex partner... Loose the loser.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): No I don't think you did the right thing. He has no respect or love for your relationship. If he did he would not have denied you. Even though he is "with" you he is still willing to act single and be with other girls. That is not at all caring or loving. He is a scumbag. And his excuse is that he is a guy?? That is not much of an excuse. Look when I was your age, I had a group of friends, guys and girls and we were always together and we all dated from within our group. I loved my guy friends and they taught me a lot about dating and about boys in general. They were all 17 and 18 years old and were very respectful and loving boyfriends and would have never done that. One of my guy friends told me once that if a guy really loves you he will not cheat on you.
What I am trying to say is that some people might argue that you are young and that guys are immature at that age. Sure they are immature but an immature guy can still have good values. But your boyfriend clearly has bad values. And I don't know if he is going to change but what he did was so disrespectful. He doesn't deserve your forgiveness. It just sounds like heartache for you. There are so many good guys out there who are cute. You can do way better. This guy is trouble.
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