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writes: I got drunk the other night and apparently said some things to my boyfriend (I don't remember) and feel terrible. After three days, he still would not return my phone calls. He finally broke up with me, stating "no one talks to me that way". I really love him and made a horrible mistake, but he is being pretty unforgiving about the whole thing. I plan to just leave him alone and move on with my life, but I wonder if I should try to get him back. I love him, and have apologized many, many times over now, but he just throws it in my face.... What should I do?
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (18 May 2007):
You have done everything you can do with regards to him. I do not think he is being stubborn, and that kind of talk makes me think you have not accepted responsiblity for your actions. If you really want to do something more, I think you need to learn to stop drinking.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 May 2007):
Stick with your plan, the ball is in his court. If you got drunk to the point that you can't remember what you said then you had better lay off the sauce, that's a very bad sign. Everyone one makes mistakes it's the people who never learn from them who have a big problem. Good luck.
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