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anonymous
writes: hii know people say i shouldnt be having sex at this age or thinking about it but we all do.My bf and i have already talked about sex, that we are both not ready and both feel comfortable in the relationship we are in. But his mum wont believe us about this. I want to talk to her and explain everything but my bf wont let me, he says it will make matters worse. And now she wants us to finsh what should i do??thank you xxx Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (18 May 2007):
I think you should listen to your mom. She knows you better than you know yourself...and at your age, your boyfriend should not be telling you what to tell, or not tell your mom.
-FBK
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 May 2007):
How old is your boyfriend? If you are under 16 and he is 16 or older then his mother is just trying to protect her son from possible criminal charges. As a mother, I'd do the same. What does YOUR mother say?
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reader, 04jrees +, writes (17 May 2007):
Hey hun. I know what you mean. people are very quick to judge the new generation about sex. I think that if your in a lovong relationship like you seem to be then it's up to you. You sound like your thinkin very reponcably about this and your boyfriends mum needs to know that. I think you are very write in wanting to talk things out with her. First of all, you need to tralk to your boyfriend tell him your reasons for wanting to talk it out and if that doesnt work then use the scare tacktick bcause the fact of the matter is - you will have to either brake up or have a very bad relationship with his mother if nothing is said. He loves you and i think its the last thing he wants. So talk it out but dont let him make you think your in the wrong.your doing the right thing. hopes this helps. =] Xx 04Jrees xX
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