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writes: Should I stay or should I go I been with a man for five years now and we break up and get back together but for the past 2 months he has been leaving for hours and then i get mad at him we don't talk and I let him back but I have tried talking to him and I tell him if it happens again I don't want nothing to do with him but this last time i let him back he seemed like he had changed and everything was good but on Monday I called him twice he never returned my call and didn't call me the whole day and then on Tuesday he called and I said were have you been he could not give me an excuse I tried talking to him but he just kept trying to give me excuses to get off the phone he made me feel like I caused the problem when I did nothing wrong I am confused I keep giving him chance after chance I keep talking to him about him leaving for hours and days because I want to be in this relationship I want it to work but I am tired I feel like a doormat and he comes tells me I'm sorry and just does it again what can I do please help I need advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2007): i think we all know what this means. i may or may be wrong, but from past experiences i'd say i am 100% right about this. you should kick him to the curb before he hurts even more. you've been hurting enough. its time to lay down the line & break it off with him. if he keeps telling you that he'll change & he does for a little while then does it again ... he will continue to do so. he tells you that he'll change because he knows he has you at the palms of his hands, but the truth is he will never change. honey, he is not going to change & he will never be the person that you want him to be. maybe its time to let go. if it didn't work the second, third..etc. time around ... it probably never will. it was never meant to be.
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