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writes:Hi there,A few months ago, a close friend and I kissed for the first time, he initiated the move and I kind of just went along with it. I had never looked at him in this way before but since then we have made out several times and I think I have fallen for him. No-one else really knows about our relationship because we think that this would make it awkward when we're around other people.Deep down I know we should stop because I think it would cause too many problems, I think he knows this too. But he is always the one who initiates the moves and I can't really say no because I want to too. We haven't really talked about what we're doing..I'm too scared to bring up the subject. I do know though that he is scared of commitment because of a past experience. I also get really jealous when I see him with other girls (not making out or anything) and I also want to make him jealous by flirting with other guys. But the thing is we're really good friends but I just don't know where we stand with each other. I think it's just too hard to go back to being just friends now but I know we're going to have to get over each other in this way as we are sharing a house next year with some other friends and I don't want it to be wierd!Sorry for babbling on but I just need some advice on how best to tackle this situation!! Thankyou!!
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reader, xxshaunaxx  +, writes (19 January 2008):
I'm in a similar situation. me and this one guy haven't kissed but we have been getting really close physically. and I have no idea where our relationship stands! it is driving me insane. me and him have been talking about "us" and it is really helping the whole situation.
I recommend you talk to him about it. what's the worst that could happen?
good luck!
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