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writes: well the deal is i always seem to fall for the wrong man or when i do find a man all he wants is sex. since my spilt with my baby's dad( of seven years) i've lost al ot of my confidance and can only seem to talk to guys when im drunk. i'm feeling very lonley at the moment and i can get very jelouse of my friends' relationships... how can i overcome this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2006): i agree with the other reply, you need to spend sometime by yourself to build up your confidence again. A great way which i found was to join a gym - it keeps your mind occupied while keeping you fit - and its another way of socialising, it boosts your confidence as you begin to feel good about your body mentally and physically, and you never know who you might meet there. At a glance it seems most single men in clubs these days are looking for a one night stand, if you met a nice single guy at the gym chances are he aint there looking for sex!
Also if youre not into the gym, you could do aerobic classes, or dance or sports classes, there is lots to choose from.
If it doesnt work out for you atleast you can say you tried. and again, jealousy is natural, you once had what they have and it can be hard to see everyone so happy, but just think, you can enjoy the single life while youre waiting for mr right to come along xx good luck
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (12 December 2006):
 Getting another man right now is not a good idea: you need to concentrate on yourself for a while. You need to build up your confidence and see why you keep choosing these men and work out how you can change the things you're unhappy with.
I know it must be hard right now, being single after so long but you must be strong. Being single can be great fun and you really need to find yourself again so, when you do meet a nice new guy, you can make the relationship successful and not let these past relationships ruin what you could have in the future.
As for being jealous of your friends, we all experience this from time to time. They've probably been jealous of you before and you'll be jealous again, it's just past of being human! Maybe spend some more time with them, talking about other stuff than guys and really have some fun!
Good luck and stay strong.
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