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I get very worked up watching lesbian porn, does that mean I am a lesbian?

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Question - (15 December 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello,

I am quite young. Like in my early teens. And I just Started Watching Porn. I watched a man and women having sex and it didnt work me up. But I watched Lesbian Porn and I got Very excited with it. It made me wet and very horny. So now i watch lesbian porn and read lesbian sex stories. I have been out with a lot of boys, but never really Liked any boys. Only one when i was 12. So i now watch lesbian porn and get very worked up when i see lesbian porn etc. So my question is...Am i a lesbian??

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A male reader, Bladejunkee United States +, writes (26 December 2009):

Bladejunkee agony auntLet's start with the question... you are in the pre-teen stage of puberty, so for the most part, nudity alone could get you a bit worked up sensually. But porn is specific to no-one, when the films are made for example; it could be beneficial to either actor, or neither actor, but either way, porn is made so people can be happy. I am currently 15, and I know that pornographic films that go up on pay sites are discarded to free sites when they lose popularity, so many people in the films are not honestly getting any arousing sensations... But the film is made to please the urges people have, whether or not they fit in chromesomatic order, which means that you can be of any race, religion, ethnicity, or community and still enjoy it, aside from the few "bizarre" or "extreme" sections of a pornographic site, most porn is arousing to anyone, regardless of any belief. YOU ARE NOT A LESBIAN, yet, you won't know if you will be until you are much older, but experimenting with your bodily reactions to different sexual situations is a good start to figuring out who you might be in the near and far future. PLEASE, SOMEONE TELL THESE RELIGIOUS NUTCASES THAT PORNOGRAPHY IS NOT THE WORST OF BAD. THE BULLSHIT THEY ARE TELLING IS NO HELP TO THESE THINGS, IF THESE RELIGIOUS CREEPS THINK IT'S SO BAD, THEY'RE MISTAKEN! AND THEY CAN GO PREACH TO THEY'RE DAMN STOOL ABOUT IT, SEX NEVER KILLED ANYONE IN PROPER SHAPE TO DO IT, AND NEITHER WILL MASTURBATION.

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (18 December 2009):

bharat mehta agony auntSee, teen age [of boy and girl also] is very active sexually, but immature intellectually and even bodily also. And, porn films are totally foolish, on all level. Aesthetically it is worst than any any possible evil or dirt. I have seen few, and entirely confused, how people can take it as pleasing?

I am not advising you to see porn film. Better, you preserve your sex drive gifted by nature. At present you cannot decide anything about your own sexuality, in the context of your own knowledge. Same sex love is something created under great many confusion, ignorance, and contradictions. No matter how great man and great celebrities live same sex life, but it is created through lack of proper knowledge. Once it became habit, it became difficult to correct. sex is very delicate and complicated subject.

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A male reader, Tirekyll Canada +, writes (16 December 2009):

very unlikely, as far as porn videos and pictures, who wants to see a tender little girl being ripped apart by an abnormally large penis? Maybe it gets some people off, however I find it much more...pleasurable and sensual seeing 2 soft, gorgeous women roll their fingers or tongues over eachother, exploring all the tastes of skin.

You watch a guy on a girl, 1/4 of it is her stretching her mouth till it almost breaks giving him fellatio and 1/2 of it him plowing her in different positions. The other 1/4 is a guy who is usually mega macho thinking he can get a girl off by biting her nipples when they're sensitive. Real turn on...

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A female reader, momo4eva77 United States +, writes (15 December 2009):

No way! Your fine and just because you like it doesnt mean your a lesbian. Its totally fine but if you get feelings for girls and want to be with them and actually do things with a girl thats a different story. But just watching lesbian porn and liking it is fine.

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