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writes: I'm having trouble with my relationship of almost 6 months. I keep getting upset at him for the smallest things (like being busy and not coming with my family for dinner, etc) and usually end up crying almost everytime I see him. I think its annoying us both but I just cant seem to stop. What can I do to help the situation before it breaks us up? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, smeedle +, writes (7 February 2006):
Break up with him, you both want different things, you want him to be with you a lot and he does not want this, so stop crying over him and finish it.
You do sound a little depressed though, if you keep crying that is a sign that all is not right with you not just your relationship, have a think about what makes you cry and write these things down then if there is a pattern or you cry an awful lot, feel lethargic or just out of sorts, go see your GP.
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reader, Ana183 +, writes (7 February 2006):
Hi there. I can relate to your problem, as I used to be like this. It started when I had depression, and it got so bad that I started self-harming. My boyfriend didnt know about this till I passed out one day with the pain and he found me on the floor. When he knew, he made me go to the doctors to get my problem sorted out, and I found it hard to go but I made it. I told the doctor how I was with the same problem you have got, and he explained that it was depression, and he put me on anti-depressants and I started to know a difference about 2 weeks after taking the medication. I no longer have any of these problems, it seemed a miriacle to me because I thought I would be like that forever! If I was you, I would also go to the doctors like I did, it could also be depression. By doing this, you could prevent further things from happening. Good luck! x
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