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writes:Hey Guys! Uhm I have a question.. Well I had my other one answered but its not solved..So me and my girlfriend had sex and its great and all but like I said, what I hate is that sometimes when were just talking or just hanging out doing nothing sexual..I get whts called "Pre-Ejaculation" which I hate dearly! Lol and yeah I'm wondering, is there anyway(s) to stop it?Just for a bit Reply to this Question
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reader, Chestnut +, writes (8 August 2008):
Chestnut is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHaha that's funny :p
Yeeaah I'm thinking of that.
But first I need to go and see if the doc says if nothings up
Ill see what's up with the "Funny Business" before going over to her place haha
Thanks Again to everyone who helped!
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (8 August 2008):
 I think doublem's suggestion is good prior to meeting up with her. My hubbie gets a bit of pre cum when we have sex but he also gets very horny if I just look at him sometimes or give him a cuddle. He'll often say dont stop cuddling me just yet so he can wait for it to go down without one of the kids wondering why he has a big lump in his trousers!!! I find it quite funny (and sweet) that I still have this effect on him!!!
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reader, Chestnut +, writes (8 August 2008):
Chestnut is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol yeah I know.
I haven't thought of that..I haven't ever talked to my dad about it but I probably will idk.
Well that's some great tips thanks.
But like..I don't feel when I'm going to ejaculate unless I'm having intercourse. Like..when were together were just talking and I start getting a "Boner" lol and yeah.
Of course, I always have safe sex haha
Thanks man
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reader, Chestnut +, writes (8 August 2008):
Chestnut is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMmm that's my guess too.
Yeah ill try that out and see what happens.
Thanks Dude.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (8 August 2008):
 In my opinion, you probably just having raging hormones. At your age, you are simply horny as all get out. One suggestion would be to masturbate "prior" to a get together with your girlfriend.
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reader, saltwater +, writes (8 August 2008):
 Don't worry -- premature ejaculation is a common condition in men.
In most cases it goes away in time once you become you more used to sexual activity or intimacy. Once it's gone it is usually gone for good. It is slightly unusual -- though not uncommon -- to get pre-ejacution when just hanging or just making out.
The doctor can give you some exercises to do to help control it....don't be nervous about going to the doctor for a cure...it is a recognised medical condition!
However, some home tips you can do is when you feel like you are going to ejaculate, just stop everything you are doing with your girlfriend and just wait until the feeling goes away. The start to make out again. If you feel like you're going to climax again, again stop. In time, the feeling of P.E will go away as you become used to intimacy.
Another technique which is sometimes advised to cure P.E is when masturbating get a tub of water and use your hand to rub some water on your penis...the idea is that it feels like the inside of a vagina. Masturbate, and when you feel you are going to climax, stop. Repeat this 3 times, and then on the 4th time you are allowed to ejaculate.
Above all though, don't worry too much. P.E usually goes away after a short time.
As ever, you are young...so make sure sex is safe!
Good luck
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