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writes: I saw this guy at Six Flags, and when i saw him i got the chills and the way he looked at me gave me chills and I cant stop thinking about him or dreaming about him. How do I stop loving a guy I don't even know? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, myp +, writes (24 June 2007):
Thats not love thats infatuation. If you see him again go talk to him. Other than that move on go meet people or do something else. If theres a future there youll see him again.-Myesha
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reader, becky115115 +, writes (24 June 2007):
The thing is you not actually in love with this guy. You are just very physically attracted to him which is totally normal. Ive seen guys that I had no idea who they were and felt the same, like I wish I knew him. Don't worry about thinking about him...u think about him like I would think about Johnny Depp, lol. As soon as you find someone whom u do know and fall in love or aer attracted to you will forget about the Six Flags Hottie. :D xxx hope this helps:)
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reader, ilikenight +, writes (24 June 2007):
Will you ever see him again? the odds are that you won't, so don't have unreasonable expectations. However, it is completly normal to feel lust for a stranger. It has happened to all of us. Some ppl call it love at first sight, but it is in reality, lust at first sight. It's an attraction thing. there is no way you can really love a man you have never even spoken to!! It is fine to go ahead and fantasize about this man, you will eventually move on from the thoughts of him because your emotions will be unfullfilled by simply fantasizing about him. If you do happen to see him again in the future, just go talk to him.
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