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*onelyfemaletrucker
writes:I am a middle aged female. I seems to get bored with men really fast. I meet a man that excites me. After I see them for awhile (5-6 months at the most) I get bored with them and don't want to see them. I have seen guys that I have been with in the past and I get excited again but once again after a while I don't want to see them. They say I do things to make them want to leave. I don't even realize I do these things(they're nothing big). Anyone know why I do this and how I can change the way I am? Reply to this Question
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reader, tiddles2000  +, writes (21 April 2009):
That is because men are generally crashing bores and totally wrapped up in themselves.
I suggest you get a hobby and hang out with some good girlfriends. I have always had horses, and they are so much more fun and exiting. I mean, how many men do you know who can jump a fence of 6feet high and gallop like the wind with you on board?? Get my drift?
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reader, tiddles2000 +, writes (21 April 2009):
That is because men are generally crashing bores and totally wrapped up in themselves. I suggest you get a hobby and hang out with some good girlfriends. I have always had horses, and they are so much more fun and exiting. I mean, how many men do you know who can jump a fence of 6feet high and gallop like the wind with you on board?? Get my drift?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): me too. i think it just means that the right person hasn't stimulated you intellectually. it's easy to find a partner for 5-6 months cos its ususally based on the chase and then sex and then you get bored because your mind is not satisfied. try looking for someone different than you'd normaslly go for.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): "they say I do things to make them want to leave".
Things such as? No information!Can you be more spesific?
"Anyone know why I do this( I pressume you must be refering to the above) and how I can change the way I am"
Would love to try and help you, but not enough information.
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reader, Uncle Sneaker  +, writes (7 June 2008):
 Do you really want to change the way you are?
Obviously you do IF you are looking for a man to settle down with, but do you? Not everyone wants a comfortable, permanent partner.
This wouldn't be my normal advice because I think lasting relationships are wonderful, but I noticed your username lonelyfemaletrucker. Are you? A trucker, I mean? I don't say that it applies to everyone, but many people who pick that sort of job aren't the kind to settle down. Always wanting to move on? Does that describe you generally, not just with your men?
We all change as we get older and maybe now you are looking for something more permanent, but I wonder whether finding a lasting relationship is something you feel you OUGHT to do rather than something you really WANT to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): You may not like the answer here, but I would put it down to immaturity. You are constantly seeking new "thrills" because like is perhaps mundane...the first step to change is recognizing that there is aproblem, so you have done that at least. Now you need to start reflecting on the cause of your immaturity.
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