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anonymous
writes:hey im 16 and i have a boyfriend of 5 months.and we went to the beach 2day with loads of people nd girls in bikini's and stuff. and he kept looking at other girls boobs and legs and stuff. this drives me crazy and i just wanna shout to him and say 'stop staring at her legs' or something.he is going out with me! so why is he checking out other girls? :( ohh it makes me so miserable just thinking about it. how do i get over getting so angry and upset about this? (my boyfriend doesnt know i feel this way)
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (26 May 2007):
 1. Ask him to stop looking - it is difficult for 16 year old boys with raging hormones to even know they are doing it and everyone else can see them staring. Tell him you find it disrespectful and it makes him look like a plank.
2. Start checking out the guys...see how he likes it.
3. Appreciate he is just window shopping.
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reader, kenny +, writes (26 May 2007):
 There is not alot you can do about him looking at other girls, as long as dosen't touch. I think sometimes for a guy its hard not to look, espessially like on a beach or something where everywhere you look there are women in bikini's.
At the end of the day he is with you and not them, next time you go down the beach get you boyfriend to wear a pair of horse blinkers so he can only see straight ahead lol.
Good luck x
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reader, DV1  +, writes (26 May 2007):
 Tell him that you don't mind him looking at other girls, but it's not nice to oggle while you're already in the presence of one. He doesn't sound like a good guy. Start looking at other guys when you're with him, and see what it does to him.
DV1
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