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writes:hiya, slightly confused here. after to speaking to a few people i still have no idea so i bring the question hereif you are seeing a guy, does it mean its nothing serious but really just sex? the line i was given was' we are seeing eachother, to see how we get along' but seeing that i have slept with this guy im now confused. help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (26 May 2007):
 I guess he could in theory be saying that you gus are simply "dating", just getting to know each other, that you're not in a official "relationship" yet. Going slowly, you know... I think that that's a big possibility. Perhaps that's what he meant.
But, I would take the Agony Uncle's advice as well. They are all men, and they might know what they're talking about. It could be that this guy only sees you as a booty call...
You know him better than we do. If he's giving you any other signs that he's a jerk, I'd ditch him. But if he seems genuinely interested in getting to know you, he's probably alright.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx for all the advice. the reason im confused is cuz he hasnt long been through a messy divorce and has a child with her, i wondered if it was just to not rush into a relationship and maybe make mistakes? he did tell me it was more than sex. but was made confused by other peoples thoughts on the term seeing someone.
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reader, kenny +, writes (26 May 2007):
 If you are looking for something more than just sex then i would leave this one alone, as i get the impression that this is all that this guy is looking for. I would ditch this guy and find someone thats wants you for you, and not just for sex.
Good luck x
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (26 May 2007):
 Sounds like he sees you as only a fuck buddy, and I doubt very much that will change. The most you will ever be to him is a good fuck buddy. If you are happy with that, fine. If you want something more, find someone else.
-FBK
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reader, DV1 +, writes (26 May 2007):
 He was obviously looking to "test drive the merchandise" so to speak. Ditch him and move on. Don't even give him a second thought.
DV1
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