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writes:Hey, this isn't really a question im just writing to thank everyone for the advice they gave me and to let you know how it went. Well my question title was "She's never been kissed before so how do I tell her I have feelings??"Well i went back to hers after we had been out and we were talking about going to blackpool for afew days together (we had been talking about this for afew weeks.) and looking at where to stay and i asked her do you want t see if we can get adjoining rooms, seperate room or the share a room-2 seperate beds obviously. she turned to me and said i don't mind you pick, and i said well neither do i and then he said 2well we might as well have the twin room if they have one (the 2 seperate beds) and i said what if they don't (incase they didn't) and she said well depending on where we stay depends on what other nrooms they have. Anyway this hotel we decided on doesn't have ajoining rooms so i asked if she wanted seperate rooms and she said if you really want and i said its up to her i don't mind where i sleep.Do you want a seperate room and she said not really. But turned out they did a twin room so we have booked that. \later that night i asked her what she was doing tonight and she said well i was gonna ask you if you wanted to come over again and then looked abit embarrassed. and i said i'd love to. i rang her up this morning to see if she wanted to go out or stay in but we have sayed in and had afew drinks. But now its late and she kinda fell asleep leaning on me earlier then i went to sleep and im stil really tired so she said i could stop over:D. Anyway i asked her if she was sure and she said yes and then asked what did i want to talk to her about( i told her i needed to tel her something earlier) and i said you may not want me to stop over when i tell you but she insisted i did. Anyway i told her that i know how she feels and what shes been through but i think its only fair that you know i have feelings for you, i don't want you to feel uncomfortable around me and you don't have to think anymore of this if you don't want to(i was kinda nervous)but she smiled and then kissed me(not properly just a really long normal kis on the lips) and then showed me this letter what she had wrote she said she was gonna show it to me after we had been on holiday because if i hated her for it she wanted one memeory of us. It basically said how she felt which was the same way but she is really scared of loosing me to it and developing the friendship by taking it a step further. i told her i would go at her pace and asked what she would be comfortable with and she said well just being with out mostly maybe even waking up with you(not nhaving sex or anything just to cuddle up to me in the same bed) so here i am now sitting down stairs at her house shes in the shower and i'm down here on my laptop writing this she seems very nervous about sleeping with me in the same bed but she knows it doesn't have to happen and that nothing and i mean nothing will happen until shes ready-i honestly didn't expect her to say i could sleep in her bed but she did.Anyway thanks for all of your replys i'm glad i told her now, i'm hoping that she will become more happier and build up more confidence in life, i truely love her and would never dream of hurting her.
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reader, keely-h +, writes (28 May 2007):
 give her the first kiss she will never forget if you get a good first experience you will want to do it again
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reader, DV1  +, writes (26 May 2007):
 Congratulations!!
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