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I gave unprotected oral sex to a man and now I'm worried I have an STI!

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Question - (21 March 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 15 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I know that STI's can be transmitted through oral sex.

Ok here's the situation, about a month back i gave my male friend head, and at the time of this i had ulsars but it didnt really cross my mind at the time (spur of the moment thing). So now, the past two times i have come on my period, it has burned so bad. not all the time, just at the start. I am just really worried that these two situations are connectioned, or am i absolutely worrying myself over nothing?! I do not know if the lad hd an STI and that what i think is making me worry, the not knowing. Please help me people! x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008):

well to be honest..

im sure its nothing sweetie. im 16 and Ive giving head to boys alotttt overthe years.

im fine.

you might wannaget checked out just incase? but idoubt youll have anything :)

xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008):

Thankyou for the advice but no i am not 13, i am 15 and nearly 16. just because it says 13 - 15 doesnt mean i am automatically 13 and not old enough to do these things.

Everything just seemed a bit odd and i was just curious, so i decided to ask on here first before going to see anyone so that if i am worrying over nothing i didnt make a complete twat out of myself!

But yeah thanks for your help, guess ill go take my "young ass" down the doctor x

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (21 March 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntNatasia seems to be confused, EVERYONE got open wounds in their mouth, all the time. In fact you got wounds all over your body. Far to small for you to ever notice but more then big enough for the herpes virus. Use a condom, EVERYTIME, even a handjob.

Also, a sign? Natasia plenty of STD's have no outward signs especially on the male. Also she is 13 and gave a spur of the moment blowjob, do you really think she did a complete medical exam?

Now STD's happen a lot and are on the increase, so yes it is certainly possible, but I got to wonder, your period HURT badly. Shouldn't that be enough to get you to a doctor?

Ah well, hope this thought you a lesson, ALWAYS use a condom. It ain't perfect protection but carry it with you ALWAYS.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008):

How about taking your young ass to a doctor? I doubt very seriously that you have any STD or STI, but go to a doctor and make sure you don't have anything at all. Good luck to you. Oh by the way....stop doing the nasty until you're just a wee bit older!

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (21 March 2008):

natasia agony auntI guess you're worried you had open wounds in your mouth and if he had an STD it could have got in there? I don't think so, even if he had. And if he had, you'd probably have seen some sign of it on him.

The burning is something else, I'm sure - could be thrush, could be nothing. And if you'd contracted an STD more than 2 months ago, you wouldn't just have symptoms at the start of your period - your period has nothing to do with it. You'd have the symptoms all the time, and you'd know about it.

The only thing to do is to go to your doctor or an STD clinic and get checked out, to put your mind at rest. Probably better to go to your doctor, and just say about the burning, and can you be checked. STD clinics are a bit scary.

But don't worry - doesn't sound like you have anything wrong at all, and certainly not an STD.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008):

I'm not sure what your asking...you said you gave him oral sex while you had ulcers...ulcers can just be an irritation, so I wouldn't worry about it unless it could be connected with someone else. If you had ulcers at the time of the oral sex, he didn't give them to you. Now you say your vagina burns during your period? It's likely just a yeasty thing going on down there, unless you may have contracted them through vaginal sex (even using condoms doesn't prevent genital herpes!)...Or by using your own saliva during masturbation (I have heard it's possible to contract oral herpes to your genitals, not sure...).

The only way to be sure is to go they tested. There is currently no cure for herpes. Any extra details you have to help us help you would be great!

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