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I gave teacher a BJ under the desk, can we get in trouble?

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Question - (27 September 2009) 13 Answers - (Newest, 6 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i just turned 18 and i'm graduating high school this year. ive had a teacher for 3 years now that i have fantasized about for a long time and friday i gave him a blowjob underneath his desk. will we get in trouble? he just got a divorce so do you think we could be together? im 18 hes 26

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A female reader, kitty_3 United States +, writes (6 October 2009):

kitty_3 agony aunti agree with the guy below! as long as no one knows, you two will be fine and then you can start dating when you graduate! :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009):

its Ok, don,t let the bullshit of society stop you annd him be together, you both consenting adults, do what ,s in your heart and follow all youe deepest desires. life is to short to miss out on the thing you want to do

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2009):

Having an affair with your teacher can you both in trouble. As long as you know that.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (27 September 2009):

He can get fired and perhaps even jailed. You can be expelled. This teacher is using you. don't let him. A good guy wouldn't let you give him a bj in school! He's no good for you and he's using you. Forget about him and find someone much better who will respect you.

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A female reader, Justified United States +, writes (27 September 2009):

Justified agony auntAs everyone said yes you will get into trouble. I as an educator would never cross the line of Student Teacher relationship. If he cared about his profession then he would have waited till you graduate if it was that serious. If he is getting a divorce then your just a pass time for him becuase he is going through some hardship. Do not let this go any where else if you care about his career.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009):

you are a high school student? And he's a teacher? You know thats not legal. Someone else can tell you the legal stuff, i just want to know why you were under the desk? Under the desk? Have you no self respect at all? No wonder he's getting a divorce, he's a pig. And you...you need to see a chiropracter. You must have curvature of the spine...or something crooked somewhere.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009):

Yes I agree with Gina, He is only looking for someone to mess around with. And a lil school girl seems like an easy target.

I'm not calling you easy, but Im just trying to make you aware that he is only looking for some fun. Not anything serious.

If this gets out he would be in alot of trouble. That school will never ever let him get a job again. The department of education will never hire him again.

Just let it go, Its too dangerous. If your still looking for a toyboy after you finish maybe see what he wants.

Dont let him mess with you tho, And remember...to keep him inline...you got the dirt on him:P

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A female reader, Hannahxoxo Australia +, writes (27 September 2009):

Hannahxoxo agony auntYes of course he could. hooking up with your teacher isnt a good thing. for one he could lose his job two his EX might come dropping down on you. Giving your teacher a blowjob not good. if you have stronge feelings for him you cant help it cause its normal to do these things when your in love but if your not you can contol yourself not to. think about this. i hope this advice helps you

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A female reader, mrs. m United States +, writes (27 September 2009):

This was definitely a bad idea. He should have known better and stopped you. You might be a legal adult here in the states but as a teacher, he definitely would lose his job. If he has any interest in you, he will wait until you are graduated. Dont expect too much though. A grown man, and a teacher no less, would have known better if he were more mature. He might be hott, but I certainly dont think he is good bf material. Forget about him.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009):

he could be in all kinds of trouble and has abused his position grossly. If he wants to keep his job then you can never be together in any kind of serious manner.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009):

well he could lose his job. you could be together, but as gina said be careful he isnt after a fling, unless thats all you want too.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009):

He can get in trouble.

And if he really respected you and cared about you enough to want a relationship with you, he wouldn't have you giving him BJ's under the desk.

Open your eyes girl and stop being so naive, he's just using you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2009):

Well i think in the us legal age is 21, correct me if im wrong australia is 18 any ways. Yes you both will get in trouble, him more so he can loose his job and possibly do jail time. I suggest you leave this man to get on with his life, you change schools and get on with yours. I personally dont see anything wrong with the age factor. But just ask yourself this is him loosing his job and doing time in the slammer worth this?

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