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writes:why would he act this way....i gave my crush my number figuring he wasnt flirting with me for nothing nor asking me what am i going to cook for him, well he didnt call and almost two weeks go by so i went to the store yesterday and he was there, and he gave me a horrible attiude and a smirk, and as a customer i needed help with something, so his coworker friend willingly offered to help me and ol boy got jealous....why get jealous if you dont want me? should i avoid that store or just ignore the immature juvi? thanks for any help you may have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2016): thank you so much for both of your answers, you both are correct.....at least I know where stand with him and I shall keep it moving.....
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 January 2016):
 Oh, so is this Mr Fluffy ?
Well, do not discount the possibility that he already has his Fluffette ( short guys have their admirers too, as you should know ) and he is only flirting to kill time at work , or because he is a flirty nature. He gets "jealous " because of ego- you are " his " customer to flirt with ; everybody, short and tall, likes to be liked, maybe he basks in your admiration , even if for reasons of his he does not intend to reciprocate , and he sulks when you give your attention to his colleagues.
Try to not take it too much at heart, or too personally. Store clerks at times indulge in some flirty banter with the clients , it sort of comes with any job which expose one to deal with lots of people. Some times it has the potential to lead to more, some times it just stays flirty banter. At least you have tried, and at least now you know it was a superficial or " pretend " interests, while if you had not tried you would have stayed with a lot of " what if "s.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (23 January 2016):
 This is about the 5 ft tall guy? It's difficult being that short. You might think, Danny DeVito was able to have a long successful marriage, so what's his problem. The majority of short guys had been bullied, and have developed psychological problems. He might even have some hidden health problem that makes him impossible to sustain a relationship. It's not that he's not interested in you. He believes that a guy would easily snatch you away from him. Something like his friend (most likely much taller) helping you out would trigger a deep sense of insecurity. He couldn't believe you have a crush on him. He might even think you are playing a joke on him.
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