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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Okay so I've been going to a store for months. I used to go there, buy my stuff and then head to my home. The past few months I've been having feelings for the guy who works there. Maybe because of the way he talks to me, but really im suddenly having feelings for him. Hee always gives me a sale on the stuff i bbuy or he even gives me little stuff for free. We once talked for about 20 minutes but i felt awkward because i might be seen as a creep, he seemed to enjoy the conversation though. He is about 8 years older than me, and its for sure a huge gap between our ages. I'm not sure if i have a chance with him, or even ask me for my number. Is this weird? Is it normal to suddenly have feelings for someone you know nothing about them? should i move on or should I try to take things slowly? I mean the way he talks, the way he looks at me just gives me butterflies. Should i ditch these feelings because they just came suddenly and they mightbe untrue?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 January 2016):
 You don't really know much about this guy at the minute, other than he makes you feel good whenever you see him. Maybe try flirt with him and see if he returns the gesture.
Or if you are brave enough why not ask him for a drink sometime.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (23 January 2016):
 He is just being friendly. If there is any more to it he will let you know. It's fun to have little fantasies about people but so far there is nothing to say he is interested in you other than a customer interaction. He might even be a bit flattered if you are being overtly interested in him. You know nothing about him and he knows nothing about you. It's not a great basis for a relationship if you weigh it up. Egh? Except perhaps in Hollywood. Just enjoy the frisson. It makes life interesting.
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