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writes:I am 17 years old and she is 21.I was going out with my ex for 4 years.She is hot and when i gaved her a ring she wanted for years she says I'm going out with someone else.it hurt me for so long.For some reason she calls me by my nicknames she gave me like boo boo,robert boo and robert boo boo baby like she loves me and using the other guy.she says to me for 2 years she wanted to marry me and have kids before she dump me and still says that to me alot and she was picking out wedding dresses.what do i do?
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (23 March 2009):
 Sorry, it seems that you really are not on her list of priorities. If she was serious about you she would never even consider dating someone else if she is supposedly with you. Do yourself a favor and find someone else. Doc
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reader, Jason means Healer  +, writes (23 March 2009):
Well, I doubt if she realises just how much hurt she's causing you.She sounds like she's still a bit emotionally shallow.Another thing; she doesn't have alot of respect to Karma dude, what goes around, comes around; trust.In the mean time, cease beating yourself up.Put some positive Karma out there with some other nice girls just as friends, not to try to make her jealous.But just because you gotta be like; "well, I love this girl but she's just messin' me around and like it's just gonna destroy me if I don't bring something fresh to the table" and who knows. Sometimes, women test you to see if you survive without them, and many is the man who fails that test through all the right reasons, just cos like they really care.Show her you're made of stronger stuff and downgrade her in your heart out of love for yourself dude.
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