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writes:the man that i was intrested in .i gave him my number but have not heard anything from him it has been about 3 weeks now . which i figured that he would do this . i miss church sunday and my friends said that he came without his mother in law an sat down at the other end of the row . they said he lean over an wave at them an wink at them and they thought he was looking for me . i really do not think they are right about this . but when i did see him he acted like everything was like nothing had happen and came up to me and hugged me . i would like some advice to how to advoid him . i like sitting with me friends and do not want to moved but i think this might be the only way to avoid him . and my friends keep telling me that he is shy which i do not believe for one minute .thanks
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reader, forever58 +, writes (28 April 2011):
forever58 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe is a widowder of 20 years
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): He didn't call... then he's acting like nothing happened... doesn't sound like he's harassing you or anything. Why bother avoiding him? Just act like nothing happened as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): jmc is spot on. The fact that he has a mother in law means he is married and unavailable (unless he is widowed).
To be honest, wanting to avoid a man simply because he didn't call you is far beneath your age. I'm guessing you're recently single (divorced or widowed) and are a bit rusty. With time and practice this will pass.
The best way to remove uncomfortable feelings is to work through them, not detour around them. Fake it til you make it.
He's already behaving as though nothing happened (and nothing did really), so it should be all the easier for you to act the same way. Before long you'll feel normal again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): I'm sorry ... he came without his mother-in-law? If he has a mother-in-law, he's MARRIED, which might be why he never called you.Sit with your friends at church, and don't let things get awkward. Have a civil conversation with him if he starts one, and leave it at that.Then, give your number to a single man.
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