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I found out that my friend broke our school windows with a basebal bat. Do I tell or not?

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Question - (7 August 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2008)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a guy friend who trust me with everything! One day when I to school, I found out that some of windows had broken with a baseball bat. Well, My friends told he hates the school and he did it. I don't know what to do. Tell the school and do the right, but betray my friend. Or not tell the school, and live with the horrible guilt inside me?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (7 August 2008):

I wouldn't tell on your friend but I would let him know that you think smashing things with a Baseball bat is NOT COOL.

In fact stop seeing him for a while and tell him that you don't want to be too close to him in case you piss him off and he comes and puts a bat through your windows. Tell him that you think he should own up to it, and join a boxing club or something so he can get his anger out without risking a criminal record.

Good Luck!! x

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (7 August 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntYou know the right thing to do. You know it inside, and you know it'll hurt you to hurt your friend, but tell the school and you'll feel a huge weight lifted from your shoulders. Knowing and not saying anything is nearly as bad as doing it yourself... you'll feel much better when you get it off your chest.

Good luck and be strong, sweetness.

xx India

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