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30-35,
*aniela123
writes:About a month ago, my boyfriend went to Ireland for two weeks for a school trip with other class mates. During this time, everyone was drinking alcohol. One night, he got really really drunk and so was everyone else. So because he was drunk, he kissed another girl! A girl who i hate! He never told me about this. I just found out a couple days ago from a friend who heard this from others on the trip who saw what happened. So I called him to get answers, and apparently it wasn't premeditated and that he was really drunk and after the fact he realized that he messed up big time. And the reason why he didn't tell me about it was because he didn't want to ruin our relationship or our summer before he goes off to college. Should I break up with him? or wait until he goes off to college that way we can spend the rest of the summer together?
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reader, nologo  +, writes (18 July 2007):
 You move the point that your BF has addiction.
His drinking is occasional: it is not regular.
This means there is no physical addiction, only psychological.
It sounds also that you cant forgive him kissing another girl.
"Should I break up with him? or wait until he goes off to college that way we can spend the rest of the summer together"
It leads to 2 conclusions: you can't determine yourself what you feel to BF and what you want out of this relationship.
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