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writes:Am I crazy or is this not normal. A while back I wrote about my partner and his moms relationship.They hit each other on the butts and laugh about then they make joke sexual ones my partner is the one that says them to his mom.His mom made the comment that she has not seen his penis in a while.!!!!!!When he was injured his mom bathed him it was only his shoulder. She saw him naked a few times. His mom doesn’t want him to travel or go to the store because dog covid and she loves when he stays at home. His dad works and is out of town for half the month.I get she’s lonely but she’s had an expensive life style. Also, I feel like he flirts with his mom or they have something going on in a sexual manner. He also made the comment there’s nothing going on with my mom and I..... is this normal or am I over thinking things.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (25 February 2021):
 OP, it honestly doesn't matter what any of us on here say. You are the one in the relationship and you have to decide what you can handle and what you don't want to handle. Personally, I would find the behavior between your boyfriend and his mother very uncomfortable and I wouldn't want to hang around to see or hear anything. I can't say for certain what is or is not going on between them but its definitely a little too involved for my taste. Its out of the ordinary behavior to me.
I am not sure why you are writing on here for what I believe is the second time? You either are going to stay with him or you are not. It obviously makes you uncomfortable so why are you still in the relationship. Your boyfriend and his mother are not going to change their behavior as they are obviously comfortable with it. So the question is: What are you going to do? You don't need us to tell you. Do what makes you feel the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2021): I really hope you are on some kind of birth control..Do not and I repeat do not have kids with this sexual predator of a man and do not let this mother who is a sexual predator in the worse way around any kids you know.Dump him...no really dump him.Why o why would you want to do this to your future children????Please if they are around any children call cps and the police.Those two are no good sexual preditors...just stay away and go no contact.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2021): I dont think you are over thinking things. It may be that his mum has always been disinhibited in this way and he has grwon up to think this is acceptable, its not. To say she has not seen his penis in a while rings very loud alarm bells to me.
Because this is a disnihibited relationships it may be how they joke with each other. I would give this relationship some thought
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2021): You're waiting for an answer that doesn't require you to leave your boyfriend, right?
The answers here are going to be the same. If you're implying your boyfriend's relationship with his mother smacks of Oedopis Complex, why are you still with him? It sounds sick and twisted, and grossly inappropriate.
You don't want to give him up; so keep watching and cringing. She comes as part of the package.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (22 February 2021):
 I remember your post the first time around, and it looks like nothing has changed from then to now.
a majority of the answers you recieved were all along the same lines, which was why are you dating him?.
So, again, why are you dating him. If nothing has changed from your last post till now, its a strong chance nothing is going to change.
If you find it all a bit weird and creepy, then leave, end the relationship and move on, simple.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 February 2021):
 Why are you dating him?
If you feel this way about their relationship why on Earth would you date him? Isn't the intend to find your "mate"? The man to father your children?
Yes, it's creepy and slimy but... it's HOW they banter.
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