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writes:Hi.Im 15 years old and in love with a girl,and she claims to be in love with me.For the record,no,Im not COMPLETELY ignorant and I do understand the complications of being "in love" at the age of 15.Me and my girlfriend see eachother about once every two weeks,and we've been doing it for 6 months. We've been doing good,we still care about each other,and so far the only problems we've had is me being clinically depressed, but she doesnt mind and we've gotten through it. We've also gotten in a few fights over the past few weeks,but we got over those too.The problem is,lately she seems kind of cold to me. And she's apparently also been talking to this "friend" on the phone a lot who is a guy. She doesnt physically see him (as far as I know) but she talks to him A LOT. She talks to him more than me, as a matter of fact. A lot of times she spends so much time talking to him she completely forgets to call me, and she openly admits that's the reason she forgets to call. When I DO get to talk to her, she's instant messenging him, and she keeps zoning out when Im talking and doesnt hear me because she's laughing and typing to him.We're going to see a movie in a few days, and she hasn't broken up with me so I assume she's forgiven me for the fights. I also trust her (even if a little too much) when she says she loves me.But my question is, could she be cheating on me with this guy? Or is there some other reason she seems to be acting this cold towards me? Has she just stopped caring? She admits she talks to him, so she obviously doesnt have that to hide, but maybe it's just to keep me from suspecting her.Any help would be appreciated.
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reader, littlegurl13012 +, writes (19 November 2008):
 Well I dont think she's cheating but she could be i had a friends like that i talked to him all the time when i was wih my ex and me and this guy would talk for hurs we would talk when my ex was at my house and everything. he was my bestfriend and some times its just some thing to do besides siting around u two dont see each other that much but the guy im with now i see him like every month and i stay with him for about a wwek then i leave to come home but he lives really far away but i love him to death but i was cold to my ex when i was talking to this other guy i mean i never hung out with the guy just talk. i care about him alot and i still talk to him but not as much as i use to but my bf talked to me about him and how he felt when i was talking to him and how mean and cold i was being when he wanted to talk to me but u should just talk to her about it if she loves u like she say she does then she will stop talking to him so much and start being nicer to you but if thigs dont change i think u should think about braking up. i feel bad to say that but if she doesn't love u enuff to pay attention to u as much as him then shes just doesn't want to hurt u but i wish u the best of luch hunn ;)
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