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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am going through a real rough time, I have been seeing this guy for 2 years, he was my first if u know what i mean and i thought he loved me until he e-mailed me that he wasn't ready for a relationship and that I am not his gf or that we're dating, yet when he wants me in bed he knows how to sweet talk me, I loved him so i fell for his stupid trap, how can i get over him? after all i did love him, but he played me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): Well it's a lesson that most of us girls learn, not a nice one but it makes us stronger and more wiser when it comes to forming relationships with men! It's a horrible feeling when you feel you have been used for sex and you thought that it meant more to your partner. Unfortunately some men just see sex as it is..just sex. But us girls (well most of us) are wired differently, we see sex as an expression of our emotion and love.All I can say is, it's his loss and maybe at some point in the future he will regret his actions. You are still very young and have plenty of time to find a man who is genuine and who is looking for commitment. The fact that he emailed you and didn't have the guts to tell you face to face says a lot about his character anyway. Please don't sleep with him again for your own emotional wellbeing, he doesn't want a loving relationship he just wants to have sex with you. If you do continue to sleep with him then it will only damage your self esteem and have an adverse affect on your future relationships with genuine, caring guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): You stop seriously by saying goodbye to this guy. I know it's hard. I believe you love him, but remember he doesn't love you. He is using you and he flat out told you so. Trust me you'll feel a whole lot better when you do this. Been there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): Do yourself a favor, run from him as fast as you can. He just wants you for sex and could care less about you.
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