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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 5.5 years, and he is embarrased by me. Whenever he has an office party, I am not invited or he makes excuses about not wanting to go after he has invited me. Its hurtful, and it keeps happening. Cam any man tell me why he would be this way? I am attractive. feeling unwanted Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2015): Not a good sign.
I'd say he doesn't want you there so that he can be free to do whatever he wants to. I'm not saying he's cheating.
If he knows that this is bothering you and keeps doing this... what can I say? Not a good sign.
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reader, Been there Now over it +, writes (18 November 2015):
Whatever the case, he is not proudly displaying you to people who are obviously important to him. Whatever the case, this is a bad sign and time to move on. I'm sorry that you've spent 5.5 years with him and it has come to this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2015): What about the other stuff in your life together? Do you go out together with friends etc? If you bump into people he knows how does he react? Is it just office parties there's an issue around?
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (16 November 2015):
 could be a number of reasons, but with the limited information it will be taking a shot in the dark. he could be a type of person that acts totally different at work than when he is out of his work place or home. he could be having a work place romance, flirting ? like honeypie committed ," does he end up going alone?" have you set him down and ask him why, "why do you not want me to go the office party with you? do you not know this hurts me?" it would not hurt to lay it on the line and ask him, and tell him how it makes you feel being left out.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 November 2015):
 Sounds more like he doesn't want to bring you, because he is not wanting to expose you to his co-workers.
Does he end up going alone?
If so, I'd call him on it.
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