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writes:I'm currently in a relationship with a totally awesome guy, he treats me right, spoils me, and he loves me as much as I love him... He is also a really attentive lover, but that's not the point, he's the same age as me, but I found out his ex was an older woman by like 17 years, who he had lived with for 2 years. This isn't a trust issue, don't think that, though he has never complained, I don't know how to explain to him that I feel slightly inferior and inexperienced in comparison?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2008): Lol, I feel your pain. I was a virgin when I met my bf. He wasn't and I mean he really wasn't. His ex gf from all accounts was a little unbalanced and a bit of a nympho who was er... quite demanding sexually. Knowing this wasn't a confidence booster but I refused to think about it. He's taught me alot and I can happily say that we have great sex. Also don't be afraid to ask questions.Just chill and enjoy yourself.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (20 October 2008):
 If it matters little if any to him, why should you bother even thinking about this? If he indeed learned anything from his ex, then he may enjoy passing the knowledge to you, therefore enhancing your experience and enriching your relationship together.
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