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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have cheated several times, and when caught, I appologise and am forgiven. Although trust hasn't been back in the relationship, because he has my email password and checks it. Recently I have called my ex-boyfriend and I have fear he understands (knows) by the phone bill. I feel so regret and don't know how I have to deal the situation. We are going to marry in near future. If I tell him, everything will be destroyed, If I don't and he get before marriage, again destroy. If we marry and later he knows, it would be even more awful. I don't want to hurt him. He is so nice and I have kept him years waiting for me and I was with other men! I am regret, but my characteristic is a cheater. I lost my other boyfriend for this reason, too. What should I do? I really feel awful whenever he talks about my email, or telephone account or anything like that which may clarify I have told lies and cheated even after a big promise gave him to be honest!
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (28 January 2009):
 WELL THEN YOU ARE AND WILL ALWAYS BE A CHEATER! Give this poor man the respect he deserves and tell him everything and LEAVE!You didnt have the respect to be honest with him in the past, have some dignity and let him find someone who will treat him better than you ever could.
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