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I feel sick when thinking of doing sexual things with guys. Am I not over my ex?

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Question - (16 November 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 November 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I'll do anything sexually with the guy I've been on and off with for the past year, nothing grosses me out. But now it's over (again) I want to try and move on. I can kiss other guys and i've gone as far as touching a guys penis, but the thought of doing anything to someone, or have someone doing anything to me just grosses me out, I feel physically sick. Does this mean I'm not over my ex? It can't be about building a relationship or anything, coz with my ex I gave him a blowjob (my first ever) within 24 hours of us going out.

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A female reader, bby_gal06 +, writes (16 November 2006):

bby_gal06 agony aunthiya

i thought that i would never do anything with another guy when i split up with my first b/f which i lost my viginity with but believe me after time it will change.

i met another guy now and i am totaly comforatble with him and i am engaged to him now.

but as for the thought of being sick and stuff is because you are scared of moving on and just forgeting about him, just you get out there and enjoy yourself and do everything you have ever wanted to do and he will not even enter your mind and when you meet a lovely new guy then you will think i have different feelings for him than what you did for your ex.

this all takes time but beleive me it will move on chick. live your life and be happy xx

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