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writes:The guy i like a lot keeps giving me mixed messages telling me he has fun after we hang out and then not getting in touch or textin till the next time we bump in to each other. I'd usually let him go but he persued me to his point and i don't know why im being played around like this ? We do have a physical relationship as well as the courting buzz ... any help you guys can offer on what you reacon is going on would be appreciated as i really really like him and just want some outside imput to check io have the right spin on the situation
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006):
What was your goal here? You are already in a casual sex realtionship with the guy.
If you want something more, can you articulate what that is? And tell him what you want.
I had a friend in college who had this problem. He was very polite with her because thats the type of person he was but he was very suprised when the girl he was sex buds with suddenly started inviting him to her plays. He really didnt know she wanted anything else- he though she had him in a box of just being physical.
Try inviting him to something non-sexual. Not quarter draft night at the bar, but maybe a picnic or movie.
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