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writes:So my ex-girlfriend and I dated for 2 years and 11 months, and due to a huge miscommunication we broke up, and we are now starting to realize what we had and could still have. The only problem is she has a boyfriend now who she likes but she is in love with me. She doesn't want to hurt him but she wants to try again with me. So I'm not really sure what to do. I feel like we are supposed to be together and she does too. what should I do?
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reader, thedude77793  +, writes (19 August 2007):
thats the way of life people get hurt.
get her on her own tell her how you feel do't pressuure her as that will make her less likely to leave her boyfriend but give her a time frame to make her decision.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (19 August 2007):
Yep, what Flower Girl said. She is the one with the boyfriend so she'll have to decide and you have to let her know that you can't put your life on hold indefinitely to wait for her.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (18 August 2007):
 Unfortunately people do get hurt in life that's just something we all have to go through, but if she is in love with you then she really does need to end it with her current boyfriend.
You need to tell her that you love her and that you want to be with her but that you can't wait around forever for her to make a decision, if she really does love you she will leave him and be with you again.
Take care.xx.
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