A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am friend with a guy who I met at work. We have been hanging out for over a month now, and generally he's fine, apart from his music. He is a big fan of his bass guitar, which isn't a problem to me, but I dislike the songs he plays the bass tunes to... I try to show interest but at times, it is clear I am bored. My parents aren't keen on him either as he came across as pretty cold when they first met, due to his apparent history of depression. However, when we are apart, I miss him, but as he doesnt show much affection/like in his messages/in person, I'm unsure if it is a one sided relationship, and don't know what to do. Does missing him mean that I am in love? Also do text messages really reflect emotions? And what can I do about his musical hobby? Please help.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (26 November 2009):
 Sounds like you trying to change him. Go and find a single woman for whom this has ever worked.
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