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writes:I dated a man for 10 months, and though we never sat down and had a conversation agreeing to be exclusive, he told me that he was not seeing anyone else four months. Six weeks ago, I told him I didn't want to see anyone else either and he seemed very pleased. Two weeks ago a friend of mine who has a profile on an online dating site was contacted by this guy. He told her that he had broken up with me two months earlier. (He didn't know she knew me.) I confronted him and told him I was very disappointed and said I needed to think about what I wanted to do and I wanted a break. Two hours later he sends me an email saying that he was stupid for not realizing that I was the "one" he was looking for.I feel like this is a line and means nothing. What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2007): He's playing you hun and if he was really into you he would have deleted his profile a lot sooner. I know you're feeling bowled over by him right now, your heart's telling you one thing and your head another...but can you ever trust the guy? I've been where you are..your heart isn't a financial transaction, it's your whole emotional wellbeing. So please, give this guy up, what you are feeling for him isn't being reciprocated and as previously said actions always speak louder than words.
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (2 December 2007):
 Actions speak louder than words and this is something he has to prove to you. To me that is a line that is very common in this kind of situation. He lied to you and you deserve better. I think you made the right choice about giving yourself a break. Think about this.. " If he lied to you now, what else could he have lied to you about?", " Is he worth it all?". Be smart and be very careful with this guy. You never know what he is capable of doing. Dont fall for a line that he may bot be able to back up.
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