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I feel like my boyfriend hasn't been making an effort lately... Is it me?

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Question - (11 May 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 May 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi...I have been feeling upset with my boyfriend lately because I feel like he hasn't been making an effort to be with me and that he has been moody with me lately and I really don't like it...he sent me a text message in the morning while i was at work saying he loved me and we had a true love and then that night when i get home from work and call him, i leave a message because he's at work and then wait for him to call me back..until 11:30 when i called him at 9 and then i asked him what was up and he said he never got my message or missed call which put me off and i told him so saying it's hard getting in touch with u these days and then he says it's not my fault in (i took it) in a rude way. I felt angry that he didn't call me today when he has a day off work and didn't visit me after I got done work today at 5:30 so I called him, but I feel like a weird tension between us..or do you think maybe it's me? Maybe i'm just making a big deal out of it? but it really disturbed me because he is normally very eager and enthusiastic to see me and usually pulls out all stops to see me...why the change? thanks a lot

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A female reader, soletshearit +, writes (11 May 2006):

soletshearit agony auntOk its hard to tell why he has been like this...the best thing to do is to sit him down n tell him your concerns. Tell him that u r worried about it n u don't wanna be like that!!! If he normally pulls out all the stops to see u then there is definitely somethin up!!! I HOPE THIS WORKS OUT FOR U...KEEP ME POSTED...WRITE BACK IF U'VE ANY MORE TO ASK!

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