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writes:Hey guys i posted this question here a few days ago but only got one answer so im posting it again in the hope for more suggestions. Ive been seeing a guy for two months. Things are going well and i think we both like each other. One thing bothers me. I sometimes feel i am making more of an effort in our relationship. Dont get me wrong he does text me but just sometimes he says he'll text or call later and never does. Last week i was out with a friend and we had a drunken conversation and she told me she doesnt think he cares. As i was drunk and upset i texted him and he texted me and said your friend is wrong i do like you. We met up sunday night and it was great. I texted him tuesday and told him about me being sick and in bed all day. He didnt text back which was ok as he works long hours. I rang him tuesday night and he didnt answer but texted and said hed call me later. Then i heard nothing so last night i was going to talk to him about where we are going i rang while he was in bed and he was half asleep and kind of just hung up on me. I texted him saying he was being rude to hang up and i wouldnt do it to him. I regretted it and this morning i texted him to say sorry and have a good day. What can i do now? I like him a lot but think he needs to make more of an effort? What can i say when i talk to him again? Any advice would be great.
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reader, Isabella1974 +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Hi sweety, dont do anything, you have tried everything you can. If this guy really wants to be with you, he will contact you and arrange to meet up properly. He seems to be very laid back about the relationship, one thing would bother me however, when he says he will text or call later and doesnt, thats not very nice. You said you were sick, he didnt even phone to see how you were, it does not take to much effort to pick up the phone and call to see how someone is. Its like he is stringing you along, i hope i am wrong and but if he was interested he would make sure he calls and rings everytime he says he would.
Let him make the next move, no matter how long it takes and if he does not contact you then move on, it will prove to you if he is interested.
Go out more with your friends have fun, if this guy wants you bad enough he knows where to find you, there is nothing more you have to do and there is plenty of fish in the sea. I hope this helps you in some way.
Take care xxx
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reader, crazy_in_luv  +, writes (17 April 2008):
hey!
yes u r right..u r making a lot of effort..i understand u like him a lot.
when u r drunk..usually the true stuff comes out.
give him another chance...tell him u get hurt sometims by his actions..
if not talk to him...let him be..if he calls u or texts u or comes over..he likes u truly...if he doesnt..plz try to move on.
hope this helps!
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